Looking Back At May 2016 

What if I fall? Oh but darling, what if you fly?

It’s a popularly quoted exchange, one questioning her abilities, the other encouraging her to try anyway. Sometimes, those two perspectives bounce around in my head. Maybe the goals I set for myself are too lofty. Maybe my expectations are unrealistic to begin with.

Steve Harvey says if you’re hitting all your goals, then your dreams are too small. There should be something on your vision board that’s next to impossible to attain. I’m not meeting all (or even most) of my goals. But they keep me inspired, they keep me pressing forward. At the end of May, here’s where I am with these benchmarks I set for myself this year


May was a big month for acquiring books. I bought 4 and got 2 free Non-Fiction reads so I added these 6 beauties to my shelf.

May 2016 Non-Fiction book haulSpeaking of beauties, I also acquired these 3 new Fictional works in May.

May 2016 Fiction book haul. This new cover of Jojo Moyes' bestselling book, Me Before You, was released to coincide with the movie
One of the best experiences I had in May was meeting JoJo Moyes at a book signing and getting my own autographed copy of her beautifully-written book, Me Before You.

Other books I read in May (mostly from the library)

  • The More of Less by Joshua Becker
  • Get Smart by Brian Tracy
  • Eat That Frog by Brian Tracy
  • Secrets of the Millionaire Mind by T. Harv Eker
  • Are You Smart Enough To Work At Google by William Poundstone
  • The $100 Startup by Chris Guillebeau
  • Son of Hamas by Mosab Hassan Yourself
  • David and Goliath by Malcolm Gladwell

It’s safe to say my reading goals are well underway. So far, I’ve read 41 of the 100 books I plan to read this year and I’m right on track.

How am I progressing with my other goals? Well, let’s see.

Running/ Health and Fitness

  • Running has taken a definite backseat in the last few months and I am struggling to get back into it. There just doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to go for a run. Which is why a couple weeks ago, I started running early mornings or late evenings. That’s how I used to fit it into my schedule before so I just have to go back to what works.
  • I lost some weight and then gained it all back and now am working on losing it healthily again – it’s harder than I thought it would be.


  • I didn’t realize any of my financial goals but I am still actively pursuing them.


  • In May, I released the Kindle version of It’s Complicated: Short Stories About Long Relationships. Unfortunately (or fortunately), Amazon doesn’t give much feedback on how it’s doing so I can track the daily downloads but from the people who’ve contacted me and told me they’re reading it, I know it’s doing well.
  • All other writing goals are lagging behind
  • Suffice it to say, I did not acquire an agent or score a book deal in May. I would’ve told you about it if I had.
  • My blog-friend, Kay wrote this awesome post about my book.


  • I took another class towards getting a certification through Church
  • I’ve been slacking on the Bible Reading Plan. Have to pick it back up

Blog and Social Media

  • I had 1117 IG followers at the end of April and 1197 at the end of May. If I could keep people from un-following me, I would probably be at my goal already 🙂
  • I’m at 774 followers, up from 690 in April

(Please, if you’re not following me on social media, do it now)


  • I barely left the state in May. Sad times for a wanderluster like myself.
  • I’m focusing on a July trip to the South and Christmas ’16 in Jamaica


I did a What He Said series (which got the most blog views in month):

Other popular posts included:

One post I liked and really wished had gotten more views:

When to dig your well

If I could turn back the hands of time, what would I change in May? I wish I had spent more time with my youth-group kids but I am looking forward to spending time with them this summer.

What is my one lesson from May that I’m applying to June? Get more exercise, even if it’s in small increments

What about you? How was May for you?  What did you learn that you can apply to make June even better? 

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One Comment Add yours

  1. jillconyers says:

    Daring Greatly is an amazing book. No surprise. All of Brene Brown’s books are mazing.

    Thanks for sharing with the Fitness Health & Happiness community. Have a great weekend!

    Liked by 1 person

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